The Secret
Language of Love

Typically, women give the signals of "stop" or "go," and men initiate the action — but only after receiving the signals from women. Most assume that silence is bad during a date — that "empty airspace" is a sign you aren't "clicking." However, this isn't always the case. Sometimes, what she's not telling you is exactly what you need to be "listening" for.

Women's Nonverbal Signs to Express Interest
Facial/Head Patterns Gestures Posture Patterns
Glance across the room Arm/wrist flexing Lean
Short, darting glance Showing palm of hand Brush
Eyebrow flash Rapid hand/arm movements Breast touch
Head toss Primp Knee touch
Hairflip Object caress Hug
Smile/coy smile Caress other's back Parading
Laugh Buttock pat Request a dance
Lip lick Caress other's torso Accepting a dance
Neck presentation Tapping someone Pointing for permission
Giggle   Moving to music while standing/seated
Pout   Play or tease
Face-to-face   Lateral body contact
Lipstick application   Frontal body contact

Top line: You don't have to commit these to memory or jot them on your palm before a date, just keep them in mind when you meet someone. If she does something that appears or feels to you that she is bridging the interpersonal space between you two, it is a GO signal. And remember the old cliché: actions speak louder than words.

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