Dating A Married Man – What Do You Need To Know?

First of all, just to set the record STRAIGHT – I strongly advise you to NOT date a married man.

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Dating a Married man has too many complications and society will never accept your relationship. There are millions of good looking, kind, SINGLE men in the world – so it’s not that you don’t have options. In my opinion and experience, women who date married men are usually insecure and think that they cannot get a better man!

Understand that if you’re willing to work just a little bit on your social skills, you can meet the right (single) guy for you quite easily.

Anyways..dating a married man….to put things bluntly, This is BAD and you should NOT do it!  There are just too many complications and society will never accept your relationship. There are millions of good looking, kind, SINGLE men in the world – so it’s not that you don’t have options.

  • You absolutely Do not have to settle for a mediocre relationship.
  • You do not need to destroy a family in order to find happiness.
  • Unless your love interest has already filed for divorce, you should seriously consider getting out more and dating other single men.

However, if you have fallen hard for a married man and simply cannot do without him – be ready for the following realities.

1) You will have to play second fiddle:

His wife will always have precedence over you. He will not attend any social or professional gathering with you by his side. He’ll always take his wife along or even prefer going alone just in order to dodge awkward questions. Even if he does take you, he’ll lie to others and say that you are a colleague or something. Are you OK with lying to the world just to be with your man? You will never be able to hug, kiss or even hold his hand in front of others.

There will always be a virtual barrier between you too. Not only that, both you and he are likely to feel guilty and ashamed of your relationship since it is considered to be morally wrong! If others do come to know about you two – they’ll call you his bitch or slut. Yes, it might sound incredibly insensitive and harsh – but that’s how people talk about extramarital affairs. His kids will abhor you! His life with you will always remain a secret.

2) He will probably not leave his wife:

Even if he does really love you, it is highly unlikely that he’ll divorce his current wife for you. Statistics indicate than less than 5 out of 100 men choose to leave their wives. There are too many legal and financial downsides to getting divorced – hence, men continue to remain married and find solace elsewhere. This way, he gets the best of both worlds. He can experience the thrill of dating a completely new person without actually destroying his life.

In most cases, extramarital relationships are usually limited to physical intimacy. Even if you two are truly in love – you can never have a family with him. Even if you do, you and your children will have absolutely no legal, emotional and financial claim. Sorry for being blunt – but dating a married man is a deplorable investment of your time and energy. It has absolutely no benefits whatsoever. You will not inherit any of his property or savings.

Even if he does really love you, it is highly unlikely that he’ll divorce his current wife for you. Statistics indicate than less than 5 out of 100 men choose to leave their wives. There are too many legal and financial downsides to getting divorced – hence, men continue to remain married and find solace elsewhere. This way, he gets the best of both worlds. He can experience the thrill of dating a completely new person without actually destroying his life.

In most cases, extramarital relationships are usually limited to physical intimacy. Even if you two are truly in love – you can never have a family with him. Even if you do, you and your children will have absolutely no legal, emotional and financial claim. Sorry for being blunt – but dating a married man is a deplorable investment of your time and energy. It has absolutely no benefits whatsoever. You will not inherit any of his property or savings.

3) He already swore to love another woman forever.

Now he tells you that he is fed up of the relationship. He claims that he loves you instead! Well, tomorrow he might get bored of you and will probably seek new adventures! Many men are addicted to such behavior. They cannot help it. Even if your man is really a really nice guy – you cannot ignore the fact that you are just a temporary decision for him!

4)He Won’t Leave her

I often get approached by women who tell me that they are dating a married man or a man who is already in a long term relationship because ‘HE WILL SOON LEAVE HER’. Well, this might feel a bit like a slap in your face – but the truth is that ‘HE WON’T LEAVE HER! If he did really want to break up with her – he’d have already done so! Also, the fact that he is sleeping with you without officially separating from his wife or girlfriend indicates that he has very little respect for you. Don’t sleep with him until he leaves her – does he still stick around?

5) You’re the one getting exploited here, not his wife. 

Imagine things from his perspective. He goes to work in the morning. After that he sneaks over to you and has mind blowing sex! Then he goes home and plays with his kids, watches TV, eats dinner that his wife has cooked for him and maybe has sex with his wife before going to sleep.

He is in a great situation.

You are not – he doesn’t even take your call when he is out with friends and family. You spend hours waiting for him and yet you get very little of his time. Maybe he buys you gifts occasionally – to keep you happy. IS that what you really want?

This website contains easily to follow tips on improving your love life. Have a look around and learn how to become the woman that men simply cannot resist! You don’t deserve to be a secondary option. You are much better than that.

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